The
characteristics my ideal man would possess are:
1.Sensitive 2.Caring 3. A Good Listener 4.VERY handsome but not conceited 5.Goals to further himself 6. Willful with strong moral beliefs 7.The ability to
cope in rough times 8.Strong but knows when to be gentle 9. Responsible 10.Not easily influenced by others (knows who he is and what he wants) 11.Calm, even during times when it is hard to restrain himself
I believe it is hard, speaking from a modern American standpoint, for a man like Macbeth to hold all of the characteristics I have listed. However there are several characteristic a man should have held from generation to generation.
Macbeth:
1.Sensitive- I think Macbeth is sensitive in a warped way. He doesn't kill King Duncan without remorse. He is so torn about the murder that he lets Lady Macbeth literally clean up his mess.
2.Caring- I think this goes hand in hand with sensitivity. He cared that he was a murderer and is tortures himself over the path that he chose 3.Good Listener-Obviously he is a good listener to a fault. His wife is a little nutty and suggests death as a means to obtain a goal. That was one time he probably shouldn't have listened to his Lady. He also listens too closely to what the three crazed witches have to say
4.Very Handsome but not conceited- I do not know exactly how handsome Macbeth is supposed to be. I'm sure he was to a certain degree (a powerful man is always sexy) but it is impossible to tell if he is conceited or not . 5. Willful With Strong Moral Beliefs- Willful Macbeth may be, in all the wrong ways of course, but he is obviously lacking in the morality department. He is the type of man where he believes that the end justifies the means. That makes him lack any sets of guidelines whatsoever. 6. The Ability to Cope in Rough Times- Although Macbeth outwardly acts like nothing is wrong in his life after the murder of King Duncan, he did not have that capability immediately after the murder. He reacted on instinct immediately after the murder and relied on his wife. He is also struggling internally, and eventually that will catch up with his outward actions. 7. Goals to Further Themselves- It is quite clear that Macbeth's goal is to become king with using unconventional methods. I never thought that a man with goals could be so flawed, but in Macbeth's case it is his fatal flaw. 8. Strong but Knows When to Be gentle- Macbeth is a murder, a villain no doubt, but he is a loving and gentle husband with his wife. He is a man of war that con protect his wife and family but still holds a gentle (but bloody hand). 9. Responsible- I feel that this is one trait that Macbeth lacks completely. His actions were completely irresponsible and was not the right choice for him to make. Does he own his responsibility for the terrible path he chose (which inevitably lead to his own demise)? Yes. but he does not act in any responsible form. 10. Not Easily Influenced- This is one trait that Macbeth also completely lacks in. He is not his own man. He is talked into committing an unspeakable crime and is spellbound by the idea of being king and is captivated by the witches. I wouldn't want to know what else he would be able to be talked into. 11. Calm- He is not in any way calm. He tortures himself almost daily and lets his deed completely was over him. He is not taking care of the situating he created for himself and is internally going insane. You can't blame a man that has just commited murder to be collected in his emotions or feelings, but he does almost nothing to cope and come to terms with what he has done.